How Dare You! Dismantling Old Programming.

How Dare You, leading to dismantling programming, might be the beginning of some big shifts in consciousness. What if everything you were told to fear was the key to your freedom? Five days ago, I woke up to a voice thundering: “HOW DARE YOU!”—and suddenly, I saw the invisible chains of programming we’ve all inherited. How dare they tell you not to trust your intuition? To fear meditation? To only believe what can be measured? It’s time to break free. Let’s dismantle the fear, reclaim our inner truth, and step into a new level of clarity. Are you ready?

Before we dive in, I want to check in with you. How are you doing? It can be unsettling with all the rapidly thrown curve balls of ever-changing news cycles. My mind is rattling with the shifts, sometimes feeling like I might lose myself in the chaos.

One might think that teaching intuitive and psychic development for 25 years would better prepare me for these times we live in. But nothing could have prepared me for how it is unfolding now. I remain unwavering in knowing that intuitive insight is essential for this time we are living in, for navigating the programming, the fear, the skepticism, the doubts, and the naysayers. Your inner light must become your guiding light, no matter what external voices say.

March: A Tipping Point in Consciousness

March is an enormous tipping point in consciousness, activating higher states of Psychic Intuition. Yet, no matter how empowered my students become, many remain hidden—afraid to share their gifts with their families, friends, and co-workers. Those newly aware might find yourself suddenly incredibly intuitive, but you could still hesitate to take that next step. Often, others don’t dare sign up for intuitive training for fear of being ostracized, cast out, or shunned by their loved ones. Here is the thing: this may be a tipping point, but it is NOT a choice point when it comes to becoming more intuitively sensitive. I encourage you to put yourself on my Psychic Mastery 1 (Foundational course) waitlist to be notified of the following registration opening.

Dismantling old fear programming around opening to your intuitive senses is vital to help you not be so hesitant to learn. These days, we live in a different world because the word ‘intuitive’ has become mainstream in our everyday language. Thirty years ago, intuition was a fear-triggering word that could divide families and friends. I’ve learned over the years that if you stay the course, you eventually become known as the strong one in the family. Your family begins to notice that you don’t get rattled as easily. You remain calm. You smile and laugh even when everyone else is in crisis. And then, something interesting happens—friends, family, and even co-workers start pulling you aside, whispering that they’ve noticed a change in you. They want to know your secret. Read my blog post on Unlocking your Intuitive Brilliance.

Where Did Your Fear Come From?

Where did that fear come from? Where is the root of that fear, and how did it become so buried deep in our psyche? These past few months, I’ve been asking a simple yet profound question: Where did your initial fear come from? What is its core belief? Who told you that you shouldn’t meditate? Who told you that opening your intuitive abilities was dangerous? Even now, thirty years later, when I am at a gathering and mention that I am a Psychic Development Teacher, I can often clear a room with that statement.

When I had my out-of-body experience and suddenly became sighted, I instinctively knew that I couldn’t tell my husband, my friends, or my co-workers. My family always supported me, but I feared they wouldn’t, somewhere in the back of my mind. Where did that fear come from? Why had I adopted it so profoundly—without question? Then, when I found myself defending this position, I was angry, and my inside voice was saying, “How Dare You want me to stop saying the word intuitive so you can feel more comfortable!” I found this article on social programming interesting.

The Wake-Up Call: “How Dare You!”

Then, five days ago, I woke up to a voice, loud and clear, shouting:

“HOW DARE YOU!”

• How dare you tell me that I must be afraid to meditate?
• How dare you tell me that men and women are not created equal?
• How dare you tell me that one religion is better than all the others?
• How dare you tell me that I must choose a political side against my brothers and sisters?
• How dare you tell me I can only believe what I can see?
• How dare you tell me I need scientific proof of everything before I can trust my experience?
• How dare you tell me that I cannot talk to God directly?
• How dare you tell me that UFOs, non-human intelligence, or Bigfoot aren’t real—just because I haven’t seen them with my own eyes?
• How dare you tell me… [fill in the blank].

I went on quite the rant, realizing I had no idea where these original controls came from. Who decided these rules? And why did we accept them without question? Why do we still accept them without question? Then I wondered how many other things I have accepted as truth when it is a lie. Who was this mysterious ‘YOU’ who had so much power to program all of society?

Uniters vs. Dividers

During this Aquarian Age, unity consciousness is something we can expect to get used to over the next several years. It might be super hard to imagine in our current state of divisiveness, especially here in the United States, but I sense that we will not be able to sustain this division for much longer. I encourage you to notice when your thoughts are inclusive or exclusive because our deeply engrained programming even has the power to divide us from ourselves.

Let’s Create a Movement

Let’s create a movement where we reconnect with the mighty force of power within us. Let’s dismantle the programming that clouds our vision so that each of you can gain the crystal-clear clarity you seek to navigate your life. Because here’s the truth: Your spirit is not programmable. Your body is. Your higher self, higher soul self, exists in pure truth. Your spirit illuminates all programming held within your auric field. When I use my clairvoyant sight to scan your aura (with permission), I can only see the truth. The Truth I witness the most is just how mighty you are. I also see the lies you hold in your aura that say you are weak. Let’s create a movement empowering ourselves and each other to dismantle the programming of disempowering beliefs.

Meditation: Dissolving the Programming

I encourage you to watch my most current YouTube video, where I include a guided meditation to begin the process of dissolving old programming.