Top 10 – Energy Control Patterns!

September Frequency Forecast came through as the cotton plant. Soft, resilient cotton made of strong long-lasting fibers as filaments of spiritual strength emerging to show you just how strong you really are. In this 3rd dimensional realm, the stressors are real. The impact of community and global stress is seeping into our bones unwrapping our abilities to cope. Outrageous behaviors are coming to the surface because our energy patterns and coping systems are dismantling under the new higher frequencies. Like someone trying to pull the comfy blanket off of you while you sleep, you grab and pull it back towards you as you feel the cold of the night air, fighting to remain cozy! What you may not realize that the sooner you can just “let go” of what is already energetically falling apart, the sooner you can begin to feel the support of a newer, higher frequency of support available to you that functions much better. Let us begin to root them out and embrace healthier coping.

Having control issues can look so different to each person, the range can be obvious or subtle. However, energetically the human energy field has certain control patterns that may never be recognized but can be felt. You can be the nicest person in the world, yet you do not know how to manage your own energy field. You might try and manage life, by managing everyone else’s energy field so that you feel safe and secure. You may want others that you love around your to follow your system of coping giving you that false sense that they too will be safer. Most people do not know that their energy field can have a mind of its own. These old energy control patterns can be deeply engrained as ancestral family patterns, passed down generation to generation. Energy control patterns can also patterns can develop in response to painful experiences that you wish NOT to repeat, therefore your energy field controls future environments just in case you might potentially get hurt in the future.

As a clairvoyant, I am addressing what I see happening in the human energy field in response to living in a 3rd dimensional world. It is a dog-eat-dog world out there. Spiritually there are many who are visioning and focusing on changing these controlling patterns so that we can live and reside in a spiritually led life, and this can be a first step. Our higher spiritual self, resides in the 5th dimension and higher. Your higher soul self draws upon the higher wisdom and knowledge available to you from those upper dimensions. Meditation can help you to cultivate an ability to communicate with your higher self so that you can hear the reassurance that you are going to be okay. Without that higher elixir of calm and comfort your energy system in the 3rd dimensional human earthly realm can become out of control in its drive to control what is happening in the world, slow it down, and break it into bite size pieces so you do not feel so overwhelmed.

This is a subject rarely talked about but is so necessary in this time we are living. We must get better at managing our energy for the healthiest coping to happen. We are spiritual beings in a human body. Our human selves has been in charge of our lives for a long time but now we are bumping up against the limitations of our human side to manage during this spiritually transformational times. We have not been given the instruction manual on how these new energies systems work. There are many videos and posts about the term “Karen”, where we can see normal everyday people who have reached their capacity to cope and go into a restaurant or shopping mall and completely melt down trying to control everyone around them. Those who have the melt downs are mortified, horrified, once the melt down is over, wondering what in the world happened to them. This is a prime example of an energy coping mechanism that has clicked into place and will not allow in a rational thought no matter how crazy the behaviors are.

What are the 10 different types of energetic energy control patterns? 

1. Expanding the aura to encompass everyone around them.  Once you have someone in your energy field you can influence how the others feel and react as you move their energy with your energy. 
2. Pulling the energy rug out from underneath another person.  Energy control is an ungrounded state.  You can not control someone who is well grounded.  Therefore, an energy control tactic can be to disrupt the grounded persons grounding by placing energy blocks in their grounding or behaving in ways that cause the other person to become ungrounded. 
3. Emotionally volatile or unpredictable.  When someone’s emotions are all over the place it can control the environment because everyone around you knows that you can easily get emotionally triggered.  We have all heard the term walking on eggshells.
4. Withdrawing love as a way to control.   Energetically pulls back, pulls the aura in, sometimes inside the body.  This can be a form of neglect as a way to be in control.  If those around this individual fall into line and behave well, then love is made available again.  We often describe this as conditional loving.    
5. Resistance as a way to control.  Energetically locking down the flow of your aura so no one can control you.  No one can get in your aura.  This mechanism was developed because the environment was controlling, and the individual learned to resist the control.  Then the individual can perceive that everyone is trying to control them therefore resists everything. 
6. Changing the subject in a group as a way to control. The individual can disrupt, when a group is having a conversation and the control individual is constantly changing the subject or introducing a brand-new topic that has nothing to do with the direction the group was going.  Conversations can be deeply focused and grounded.  When a strong group comes together for the purpose of making great changes an individual whose energy is trying to control will disrupt the grounding by changing the subjects often attempting (unconsciously) to unground the group and energetically control the direction of energy.
7. Re-directing the direction of another person can be an energetic control.  Giving advice, telling someone, they should not do something, not recommended, I would not do that if I were you, again, to unground the other person by triggering them to doubt their decision, second guess, the direction they were going, or changing their mind to keep the energy control person happy so their energy will settle down. 
8. Borderline personalities are masters at energy control.  Like a player moving chess pieces around the board and yet have the ability to make you feel as if you were the one who was moving yourself.  Their energy field can literally move you in another direction or provide false light that guides you along a path they want you to take for their benefit.  Only to change the direction the moment you become settled again.  Borderline personalities are more about playing the game as a way to control rather than controlling because they feel unsafe or frightened.  Click Here to read Psychology Today on Borderline and Narcissistic Personalities.
9. Narcissistic energy control is similar to border line personalities in that everything is about them.  Narcissistic behaviors will disrupt the energy when the focus is off of them.  Causing others to turn towards them again so your light is feeding their light.  They have not learned to resource of the light of the divine.  Often growing up in a severely controlled environment, learning to draw their source of energy from others, taught that is the way, and must learn to resource from themselves. 
10. Energy cords as a way to control, can look like an octopus, or medusa with the snakes around the head.  The energy of this looks like energy cords moving into all of your chakras, changing the spin, the vibration, the frequency, going from the front of the chakra to the back of the chakra, high chakras, low chakras as a way to control the energy by keep you off guard. 

Most energy control behaviors are completely unconscious to the person who is implementing them. Remember, these are coping survival mechanisms. Most people are blind to their controlling behaviors. However, as the frequency on the earth rises, more of these behaviors just can not exist because the frequency is too low for the new high vibes. As we expand our own conscious intuitive awareness it is easier for us to begin to see controlling behaviors in other people and ourselves. Having judgement or criticism of yourself or others for these controlling behaviors energetically creates a critical judgmental wall that creates challenges when you try and release these patterns because you are judging them. These are survival coping mechanisms created to help you or others to deal with life when it was frightening or felt out of control.

I was in a relationship for a long time where the individual controlled everything in the house, knew where everything was and would begin to unravel if anything in the home was disturbed. When I spoke with my therapist at the time, they were able to help me to understand that as a child they had no controls, overly controlled and alcoholic parent. The only thing that felt safe were solid items that did not change. Human relationships did not feel safe. When my eyes were opened I could see it was not simply a neurotic behavior trying to control me, it was their way of finding comfort in items to feel safe and secure.

Most energy control behaviors are completely unconscious to the person who is implementing them. Remember, these are coping survival mechanisms. Most people are blind to their controlling behaviors. However, as the frequency on the earth rises, more of these behaviors just can not exist because the frequency is too low for the new high vibes. As we expand our own conscious intuitive awareness it is easier for us to begin to see controlling behaviors in other people and ourselves. Having judgement or criticism of yourself or others for these controlling behaviors energetically creates a critical judgmental wall that creates challenges when you try and release these patterns because you are judging them. These are survival coping mechanisms created to help you or others to deal with life when it was frightening or felt out of control.

The more grounded you are the less vulnerable you are to other people’s controlling energy patterns. The more grounded you are the less likely your own controlling patterns will be able to take over your behaviors.

Working with cosmic energy colors to rapidly shift the colors of your aura can prevent controlling energies from gaining access to your energy. Simply imagine your aura is blue, green, pink, red, purple, yellow, read, blue, green, orange, blue, red, purple, in a rapid fire way using your imagination. This rapidly changes the frequency of your aura so that it causes the controlling pattern of another person from tapping into your frequency. Meditating with rainbow colors can dissolve your own controlling out dated coping mechanisms, making room for healthy coping strategies.

Recognizing your patterns is the very first step to being able to heal them. When you can admit that you have energy patterns of control then your own spirit illuminates them more so you can consciously recognize them in the moment and begin to shift them. The higher consciousness of your spirit will challenge your to expand beyond these controlling patterns in your aura which can feel uncomfortable. Letting go of the pattern, trusting and having faith that your spirit will safely guide you forward and has your back is vital to healing. I highly recommend the book The Dark Side of the Light Chasers, by Debbie Ford. Click here to purchase the book.