Are You Caught in Sticky Blame Energy?

Are you caught in sticky ‘BLAME‘ energy? Hello everyone, it’s Nancy again! Today, I’m diving into the energetics or quantum frequencies of blame. Your thoughts, actions, and experiences shape your human energy field. If you’re new to my blog and videos, please feel welcome to leave a comment and share this topic with your friends. I’m a clairvoyant psychic, and I’ve been teaching psychic development and studying the human energy field at that frequency energetic level for almost 30 years now.

Let’s jump into the frequency of blame, which seems to be a toxic issue that is at an all-time high right now. What do I mean by that? Well, think about your day. Including yourself, who or what are you blaming for things that are going wrong? “If I’d gotten up earlier, I wouldn’t be rushing,” or “If the government was more organized, things would be better,” or even “If our banking system hired more experienced people, this wouldn’t be an issue.” Blame can extend to various aspects of our lives, from our parents and siblings to workmates, bosses, spouses, partners, and even ourselves.

The Epidemic of Blame

We are living in a global world of blame, and it’s an epidemic. At quantum levels, the energy of blame is not healthy nor does it serve us in an ability to move forward with action steps. We blame parents, siblings, workmates, bosses, spouses, partners, teachers, children, and ourselves for causing us pain or having toxic influences. For instance, you might blame yourself for being in a bad mood and affecting others or blame others for your situation. Read this great article on Blame Shifting.

Spirit often explains that we are like a beautiful tapestry of frequencies. You might have a frequency of being generous, calm in emergencies, loving unconditionally, or using your mind to solve problems. These frequencies blend to create a beautiful tapestry of who you are. However, lower and denser frequencies, like blame, can coat over these higher, lighter frequencies like an oily film, making it hard to recognize your inner brilliance.

The Sticky Nature of Blame

Blame is incredibly sticky and can gum up your inner flow causing you to feel stuck. Whether you are blaming others or being blamed, it makes everything sticky. Imagine a situation where you’re blaming someone. The whole situation becomes sticky, making it difficult to move forward. Blame can stick to everyone involved, creating a mess that’s hard to untangle. For instance, one person in a family might be blamed for something, and that blame spreads, sticking to everyone else, and creating a toxic environment.

In a family structure, you might be the scapegoat and everything gets blamed on you. That sticky invisible energy also sticks to everyone who is participating in the blame pattern. Even if you refuse to participate in the family blame game, but do not stand up for the person being wrongfully blamed, you are easily caught in the web along with everyone else.

The Energetics of Blame

Blame creates a fine, strong, sticky thread that wraps around the person you are blaming, like a spider’s web. Every thought of blame shoots out another thread, wrapping around the individual, making it hard for them to break free. They can’t heal, and neither can you. The more you blame, the more entangled you become with the person you are blaming, making it difficult for both of you to become better versions of yourselves. Read my blog; Stop Toxic Energy Patterns.

Just like a fly in the spider’s web, the more the fly is attempting to get out of the sticky situation the more stuck you see to become. Why do you think this is? Well, often it is because there are many individuals invested in the person being blamed, to remain stuck. As long as one is being blamed, the others are free to go about their life.

Healing from Blame

Healing from blame requires breaking those sticky threads. Here’s a personal story: In my childhood, I had an abuser. I went through therapy and worked on healing, but I still held onto blame. My spiritual teacher suggested offering healing to my abuser. At first, I resisted, feeling entitled to hold onto my blame. But eventually, I decided to try healing the situation instead.

Offering healing to the situation made me feel a lot better. I felt free, light-hearted, and less burdened. Eventually, I offered healing to the abuser, and it was transformative. I felt an energy moving out of my body, and for the first time, I realized how much of their energy was stuck in my field. Offering healing dissolved the blame, releasing their energy from my field and suddenly I felt free from that sticky web of blame.

Steps to Move Forward

  1. Acknowledge the Blame: Recognize where and who you might be blaming. It’s the first step to healing.
  2. Reframe the Situation: Instead of focusing on the person, consider healing the situation. You are not letting the individual off the hook, but you are dissolving the sticky energy so you can make moves towards resolution for yourself.
  3. Stop Sending Blame Threads: When you catch yourself blaming, reel it in. Resist shooting out those sticky threads wrapping up others in your web of blame. Give yourself a time limit on how long you will benefit from blaming that other person for hurting or harming you. Do not allow yourself to live in the sticky blame for years on end. This only keeps everyone involved stuck with you. Only release the blame when you feel fully ready. No one can name that time frame for you.
  4. Seek Professional Help: If the blame is deep-rooted, consider making an appointment with a therapist to help you work through it. As a clairvoyant healer, my sessions with clients often address events that happened ages ago. Seeking talk therapy can assist your physical, emotional and mental bodies to have an opportunity to heal through talking out the experience with a professional witness.

Conclusion

We live in a world where blame is rampant, but we don’t have to be stuck in that energy. By choosing to weave more positive, higher-frequency threads into our tapestry, we can start to heal ourselves and our relationships.

I hope my story and insights on blame help you ponder new ways to handle blame in your life. Remember, your tapestry is made up of many threads, and blame doesn’t have to be the one that defines you. Share your stories and insights in the comments; we are stronger together!


Comments

2 responses to “Are You Caught in Sticky Blame Energy?”

  1. I too had an abuser. I also knew that spirit knew, and did nothing. As a child I believed I was bad and God hated me. Decades later I find myself ‘screaming’ into the universe even after his death to blast him with my rage for destroying my life. This was the second lifetime of this experience. I have done a lot of healing, but stalled out at the ‘forgiveness’ part. It felt too much like becoming vulnerable again. Reframing it into a healing resonated with me. I just did a Melchizedek method meditation and envisioned all involved who did not help being healed by the light. Sticky threads dissolving. And then him. I said I will be free of it and you can be too if you so choose. And then I thought of the blame I put into the spirit world and offered healing there. Finally I forgive myself. This is August 16, 2024 and I am done with it for all of eternity. Blessings and so much gratitude 🙏

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      Nancy Rebecca

      Your work is powerful work and not for the faint of heart. I love the Melchizedek meditation. Thinking back now on the abuse, it feels so much more distant. I do not think it ever goes away but the voice of the trauma gets quieter with each healing. Beautiful

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